I carry a lot of shame around with me. Not because I have done something shameful but rather because my life story is seemingly tainted by my somewhat tragic life experiences. I am currently on a journey to redefine myself outside the harrowing abuse I experienced as a child.

Growing…

On the 16th of July, I received an email invite to apply to Medium’s new Creator Fellowship. I was ecstatic because according to Medium the Creator Fellowship offers creators a monthly minimum guarantee of earnings through the Partner Program from August through October. …

A whopping 78% of people still believe that men should pay on the first date. For some, this may come as a shock because nowadays society is seemingly always advocating for equality between the sexes. …

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Sometimes I write about love and relationships, from coping with a talking stage break-up to dissecting racial nuances in the dating scene, I enjoy sharing my perspective on love, dating and relationships. We've all experienced it and we all understand the raw emotions associated with love. I’ve written a few articles about relationships and love and decided to put all of them in an easy to navigate Medium list.

So if you feel like going on a little reading rabbit hole, I’ve made it easier for you to find all the stories in the list below. Some stories like The Dark side of being an Independent Woman (included in the list) are divisive so feel free to add your comment and add to the conversation. I enjoy reading people’s perspectives.

Helmut Kentler was a renowned German psychologist, sexologist, and academic. He advocated strongly for the decriminalization of sexual intercourse between adults and children, arguing that sex between adults and children could be beneficial for children. He also argued that incarcerating pedophiles did more harm than good for the children that…

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This is my first short-form post (well, almost short-form). I hope to use this feature as a way of engaging with fellow writers and learning more about their writing journeys. Today’s post briefly discusses Vocal. Have you written on the platform and if so what has been your…

If like me you’re a reality television junkie then you’ve probably heard of the show, Love Island. …

An article I wrote a while ago titled, “The Dark Side of Being an Independent woman” has undoubtedly created a lot of discourse. From that article, I have been able to learn more about what men think about strong, independent women.

I wish I could write about how men adored…